Find friends near you
Making friends as an adult is a scheduling problem. Lower the cost of a single plan, one evening, one activity, no membership, and it gets easier.
Scan to get the appFour steps, one real meeting
See what is near you
Curated ideas tied to real places, so you are not starting from a blank box.
Post your plan in seconds
What, where, when, one-on-one or small group. Any time from today up to 12 months ahead.
Others ask to join
You see their profile, what you have in common, and how reliably they show up. You decide who is in.
You meet
No open chat. An hour before, Focus Mode opens for quick preset messages and your live location.
Built for friendship, not just for meeting strangers
Post, don't chase
Let people join your plan instead of messaging six friends and hearing back from one.
Join what's already happening
Free evening, no plan? Answer a Drop someone nearby already posted.
Set the intent
Choose new friends, so everyone who joins knows what this is.
One-on-one or a small group
Your call, every time you post.
Friend Circles
Group the friends you already have and invite the whole Circle to a Drop in one tap.
Invite codes, not searches
Add friends with a code, or have them invite you. No username search, so nobody gets cold-contacted.
Why people who say yes actually turn up
Who this is for: people new to the city (see for expats), friends who all had kids or left town, anyone out of a long relationship, remote workers who last spoke to someone in person on Tuesday, and people with plenty of friends who can't get four of them in one place before August. forrealz! is 18+ and works in German and English.
Frequently asked questions
How do I find friends near me?
Post a Drop for something you were going to do anyway, a coffee, a run, a gallery, and let people nearby ask to join. Shared activity does the work that small talk cannot.
Is forrealz! only for meeting strangers?
No. You can post a Drop visible only to friends you already have, and group them into Friend Circles to invite an entire crew in one tap.
How is this different from a swipe app?
You match on what you want to do, not on faces in a queue. No swiping, no endless chat before meeting, just a straight path to actually meeting up.
Is it free?
Free to start. Posting a Drop is always free, and your first 3 Picks are on us. After that, joining someone else's plan uses coins. Premium is available as a separate subscription with extra filters.
Do I have to meet in a group?
No. Every Drop is either one-on-one or a small group, and the person posting it decides which. You can filter for either.
How do you stop people from not turning up?
Every profile carries a Trust Tier that rises by showing up and falls by cancelling, and both people check in with each other at the meeting. Both are visible before you agree to anything.
Your city is full of people with a free evening and no plan