How forrealz! works
You post a Drop for something you want to do, other people ask to join, you approve who comes, and you meet. No swiping, no open chat.
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Ideas near you
Tied to real venues, with ratings and distance. You can take an idea straight into a Drop.
Post your plan
What, where, when, one-on-one or a small group, and the intent behind it. Any time from today up to 12 months ahead.
Others ask to join
You see their profile, what you have in common, and their Trust Tier, then you approve or decline.
The meeting
You get the venue, the time and the people. An hour before, Focus Mode opens for quick preset messages and live location. Then you meet and check in with each other.
Why it works this way
No open chat
Removes weeks of texting that never becomes a meeting, and the channel scammers and fake profiles need. Instead, Focus Mode opens an hour before the Encounter for a few preset messages and your live location.
Proof you both showed up
You scan each other's code at the meeting. It feeds your Trust Tier, which everyone sees before agreeing to meet you, and a short respectfulness check follows.
Every Drop says what it is
Six intents, set per plan: new friends, dating, activity partner, language exchange, networking, meet other parents. You filter by what you are looking for.
Works for friends too
Post a Drop visible only to your friends, or group them into a Friend Circle and invite the whole Circle in one tap. Add friends with an invite code, no username search.
Frequently asked questions
What is a Drop?
A short-lived plan: an activity, a place, a time, a group size and an intent. Drops can be scheduled up to 12 months ahead, though we recommend staying spontaneous unless you are planning around a specific event.
What is a Pick?
A request to join someone's Drop. The person who posted it sees your profile, what you have in common and your Trust Tier, and decides whether to approve you.
What is an Encounter?
An approved Pick. It is the confirmed meeting itself, with the venue, the time, the people, Focus Mode for quick messages and a live location, and the check-in.
How does forrealz! work?
You post a Drop for something you want to do, other people send a Pick to join, you approve who comes, and you meet. No swiping, no open chat.
How do I create a Drop?
Tap the red + in the bottom menu to add your own idea, then work through four steps: what, where, when and a review. You can also browse the curated ideas in the Discover tab and create a Drop from there.
Can I join an activity without creating my own Drop?
Yes. Browse the Drops others have posted, filter by activity and intent, and send a Pick to the ones you like.
What happens after someone Picks my Drop?
You get a notification and can see their profile before deciding. If you approve, it becomes an Encounter and both of you get the details.
Do I have to accept everyone who sends a Pick?
No. You approve each one individually and never have to give a reason.
What is the QR check-in and why do I need it?
At the meeting you scan each other's code. It proves you both showed up and feeds your Trust Tier.
Can I use forrealz! for one-on-one meetings, or only groups?
Both. Whoever posts the Drop sets whether it is one-on-one or a small group, and you can filter the feed for either.
What happens if nobody Picks my Drop?
It expires quietly after its date passes and nobody sees a failed plan.
Can I cancel or edit a Drop after posting it?
You can edit a Drop as long as nobody has Picked it yet. After that you can still cancel, but cancelling a confirmed Encounter affects your Trust Tier.